Below I have featured a few of my favorite sex toys as examples. All of these should be part of your selection at home at some point. Don't go out and buy all of them right away, but add to your collection over time. Remember that getting a new sexy toy can be one of those sexy surprises. It is a totally sexy moment when he comes home from work or back from a business trip and you break out the new sex toy (or eventually have him help you pick one out.)
Where to buy
Any Google search return thousands of results. One of the biggest online retailers is www.adameve.com. Another one with a huge selection is www.sextoy.com. However, you can even buy them on Amazon.com or at your local sex toy shop.
Before you buy, take a look at some of the reviews on www.adameve.com or www.sextoy.com. I find they are helpful in making a choice.
Also note that you can get some great promo codes for www.adameve.com by searching the internet. There are some people who will review the products (on youtube.com etc) and will then give you a promo code that can be as much as 50% off your purchase. It is well worth doing a few minutes of searching for a promo code before checking out.
Standard Vibrator
This is your baseline entry level sex toy. If you don't have any, start with one like this. They are not expensive and they feel great.
Here are some thoughts on making a choice. As always, check out some reviews from places you are looking online.
Here are some thoughts on making a choice. As always, check out some reviews from places you are looking online.
- Look for one that is made of a soft jelly material (it will often have this in the description or reviews)
- Get one that is waterproof so you can take it in the shower and bath.
- You want one with variable vibration levels
- Look for one that doesn't eat through batteries too fast
- Read reviews for one that is durable and and one that doesn't break quickly
- Go with something that isn't too big. Try for just 1 inch in thickness so you can ease into it.
- If you are freaked out by the thought of buying your first sex toy, start with one that isn't too realistic looking. Definitely get one that is a fun color but also one that doesn't look like a real penis either.
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| Eve's Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator @ www.adameve.com |
Rabbit Vibrator
The next level up from your entry level vibrator is a Rabbit Vibrator. These are more expensive but well worth the cost. Pretty much all of the bullet points in the section above are valid for Rabbit Vibrators as well. The big difference is how much more movement, vibration, and stimulation these give you. They give both vaginal and clitoral stimulation at the same time. They are amazing to use and you need to have at least one as part of your collection. I have several different types of Rabbit Vibrators. Every one can stimulate you in a slightly different way.
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| Wet Rabbit Vibrator @ www.adameve.com |
Wand Massager
The Hitachi Magic Wand is pretty much the market leader in wands. There are other options on the market but this is the one that started it all and is really the best quality. Use the wand as it comes without additional attachments for earth shattering clitoral stimulation.
One of the best things about this is you can actually use it for back & foot massages (its original purpose). The other great thing is the number of 3rd party attachments you can get for it. Search on Amazon.com for "Magic Wand Attachments" and you will find all kinds of great and inexpensive attachments you can slip over the top.
You can find the Magic Wand on Amazon.com for a good price with the Speed Controller (recommended).
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| Hitachi Magic Wand with Speed Controller @ www.amazon.com |
Prostate Stimulator Massager
This sex toy is the first one you should get for use on your husband. You can use it for anal play for both you and him, but it actually designed to rock his world. If your husband has never had his prostate massaged, both of you are missing out. Surprising him with this will definitely make you a sexy wife! |
| Classix Prostate Stimulator @ www.adameve.com |
Realistic Looking Suction Cup Dildo
A realistic look dildo is another must have in your collection. Get one with a suction cup for sure so you can use it with or without your hands. Even though it doesn't vibrate, it is still so sexy!
This toy really can fulfill the threesome fantasy and the him watching you take another man fantasy. Pretty much all men have thoughts of this fantasy on some level, but 99% of them don't actually want it to ever happen. This gives you the ability to do safe role playing and fantasizing without even getting close to crossing that line. You don't even have to bring up the fantasy part when you break this baby out. Just start using it and he will get the idea even if it is never mentioned!
It can be used by yourself or together with your husband. You can suction it to the shower wall, bath tub sides (inside or outside of the tub), bathroom floor, the headboard of your bed (one of my favorite spots!) or mirror if it is mounted well. Check the sizes for both length and width before buying to make sure you are getting one that you can handle. The one in the photo below get's great reviews on www.adameve.com.
To give you an idea of how you can use this, think of these scenarios. First start by mounting it to your bed's headboard or similar place. There are three basic uses for this toy mounted to your headboard that will will drive your husband totally wild!
- He is taking you doggie style from behind while you are giving a blowjob to the dildo mounted to the headboard of your bed.
- Just reverse the roles from the the step above and now you are giving him a blow job while backed in having sex with the dildo in nice rhythmic pace.
- Finally you can be backed in rhythmically taking it from the dildo on your headboard doggie style, while he is under you facing the opposite direction eating you out while you also give him a blowjob. So think of doing 69 with each other, but also moving in and out on the dildo. This position is the ultimate for visual stimulation for him.
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| 8 Inch All-American Whopper Dong @ www.adameve.com |
Other Sex Toys
- Mini Bullet Vibrators
- Mini Remote Controlled Vibrators
- Anal Beads
- Bondage Toys (blindfolds, hand cuffs, strap-on, etc)
- Various games, lubes, aphrodisiacs, performance pills, etc. can all be found at your local sex shop or online.
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