How to act sexy in the bedroom

There are literally hundreds of thing you can do to act sexy in the bedroom before, during and after having sex.  Remember this is all about giving him a good view of "the show."  Your husband is a visually stimulated being. Don't get silly and over do it, but think about incorporating some of the actions and ideas below into the bedroom. You are in a safe place, behind closed doors, it is time to unleash your inner slut!!

The most important thing to acting sexy....BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR BODY AND YOUR SEXINESS!!

Peeling down your panties like a stripper

You will want to be wearing a thong or a g-string.  You are in the bedroom standing up.  Your husband is watching you from the bed.  You bend over sticking you butt up into the air with your legs just slightly spread. You should be giving him a view from either the side or the back so he is looking at your butt. Take your thumbs on the inside of the back of the thong and using your thumbs, slowly peel your panties down and off like you are stripping for him. Do it nice and slow so he can enjoy the anticipation of seeing you pull them down.

Bending over in a sexy way

You are standing and he is watching from the bed.  With your rear facing him and your legs spread about shoulder width apart, slowly bend over and grab one ankle with both hands like you are stretching your hamstring.  By doing this you will be leaning to the side so you can look back at him under your shoulder to see how much he is enjoying the view.  You are giving him a good view of your rear up in the air and it make your legs look great (especially when wearing sexy heels).

You can also do this grabbing both of your ankles with both hands when bending over.  However, if you do this, don't look back at him with your head between your legs, because that is kind of awkward and silly looking.  Just bend over, grab your ankles with your head facing down or forward and away from him.  Let him see those beautiful stretched out legs.

You should do this for few seconds when you have your lingerie on during foreplay.  Alternatively you can throw it in occasionally when changing positions during sex when you are naked.  Either way he will like the show.

Sticking your sexy butt up in the air while on the bed

When you are on your knees on the bed, don't hunch your back. You should stick your butt up in the air with your legs slightly spread so he can see the nice view.  Curve your back down instead of hunching your back.  So think butt up in the air and shoulders up higher.  Your mid back should be at the low point.  You can be on your hands or on your elbows. 

Another sexy variant of this is to point your toes and raise your ankles up so he can see your sexy toes too. You are supporting your weight on your hands and knees, ass up, mid back down, ankles up in the air with your toes pointed. Also, look over your shoulder at him.  Sexy wife!

Peeling your panties to the side

You are either standing in front of him or laying on your back with him looking down on you.  Take your hand and grab the side of your panties in the front.  Peel your panties slowly to the side revealing your beautiful pussy to him.

You can also do this from the rear angle.  Peel your panties to side to revel your pussy when either standing with your rear facing him or kneeling on the bed with your rear facing him.  See the two sections above for more context.

Crawling across the bed in a seductive way

He is on the bed up against the headboard.  Starting at the foot of the bed, you seductively crawl slowly across the bed to him. Make you move extremely slowly with with your ass up in the air.

As you get close, use your finger to do the "come here" motion, then start kissing him passionately.

Licking your lips

Licking your lips can get corny so be careful.  You need to almost practice in a mirror.  Do it just for a quick pass once when he is looking at you and you are both turned on.  It is very sexy and inviting. If you have a nice red lipstick on it can add to the sex appeal too.

Breathing sexy

How you are breathing says a lot of about how much you are enjoying the sexual stimulation. When you start to breath faster, have short breaths, or groan with pleasure, it will help send him over the edge.

Remember to smile

Smiling shows you are happy and enjoying your time with him.  Remember to smile when you are flirting, during foreplay, having sex, giving him a blowjob, etc.  Knowing that you are enjoying yourself makes it more enjoyable for your husband.

Pointing & curling your toes

You have heard of "toe curling sex" before.  If he is withing view of your toes, consider pointing them like a dancer or gymnast would. As you are having sex and getting into it, curl those toes to show excitement.  You want to show off those sexy toes of yours and a simple thing like pointing them and curling them adds to the sex appeal.

Looking up at him in a naughty way

When giving him a blowjob, make sure you look at him in a way that shows you are enjoying yourself.  He wants to see you are enjoying yourself and desiring more of him.

You can also do this at other times in the bedroom or even on a date.  Practice in the mirror a couple of looks that say, "I am so horny" or "I am feeling naughty" or "The things I am going to do to you!"

Use some baby oil

Pour baby oil or massage oil all over your tits and pussy and rub it around.  You can do this while standing or kneeling over him, or while laying on your back.  Your husband seeing his wife all slicked up is very hot.  My husband loves it when I am all oiled up.  It is messy so save this one for special nights!

Grab his hand an put them on your tits

Your husband will love it if you are forward with him.  Initiating foreplay by showing you want him to fondle your tits is a great way to to do this. Grab is hand and pull it towards you, with your other hand, pull your shirt/bra aside and place his hand on your breast.  He will get the message before you get there!

Grab your ankles and pull your legs above your head

This one takes some flexibility and practice before doing it in front of him.  Men love to see their wives in sexy positions.  What husband would not want to see his sexy wife laying on her back with her legs spread above her head and her hands on her ankles?  It screams out, "come here, I am ready for you to take me!"

Spreading your legs and giving a full view

Don't hide behind the sheets of your bed.  Spread your legs and give him a full view.  While laying on your back, put your feet up in the air above you with your legs together.  Then while pointing your toes, spread your legs down to the sides as far as you can go.  If you are flexible, you can even try spreading your legs out straight to the sides when laying on your back.  Give him a full view of your nicely shaved pussy.  This is a great reason why it is important to work on your flexibility.

Get into it when he is eating you out

My husband loves to eat my pussy.  Don't deny your husband the enjoyment of giving eating you out. Make sure your actions show that you are just as into it as he is!

  • Leaning your head back while receiving head
  • Putting your hand on the back of his head and pulling his face harder into your pussy
  • Putting you feet on his head, shoulders, or back while receiving head
  • Slightly bucking your hips to show how turned on you are

Pleasure yourself in front of him

Your husband may wonder if you pleasure yourself when he isn't around.  When you are having sex and foreplay, show him how you do it.  It is extremely erotic for him to watch you playing with yourself.  You can do this when having sex or just as a warm-up during foreplay.  Below are some of the things you can do.  Try each one independently while in the heat of the moment, or do them as a progression while he watches a sexy show.  It is fun to make him sit on his hands and watch while you put on a strip tease with some self pleasure.

Start with rubbing and playing with your tits in front of him. This is a great way to introduce this kind of foreplay into your sex life as well.  Grab your tits and squeeze them, play with your nipples, and squeeze them together.  Then spread your legs and show him what you can do next with your hands.

The next move  is to spread your pussy lips.  Use your index and middle finger spreading your lips apart for him to see.  This is extremely naughty and will really turn him on.

Start rubbing your clitoris gently.  Really warm yourself up and make sure you show him how much you enjoy pleasing yourself.  This is something you should try doing when having sex too.  Don't let your hands get in the way, but there are several sex positions that allow you to rub your clitoris while he is having his way with you.  There are some great clitoral vibrators that you can use in addition to your finger.

Now start putting a finger in your pussy and slowly move it in and out.  You get your finger nice and wet for him to see.  This is another place where you can augment with a vibrator or dildo.

After you are all wet and turned on, you can take your dripping wet fingers and put them into your mouth to suck your own juices.  Your husband will not be able to contain himself if you do this. Another thing you can do is putting your fingers in his mouth as and invitation to join the little party you are having with yourself.

Another thing to try is masturbating in front of each other. You start off doing it and let him get hard enjoying the show, then ask him to touch himself.  Keep encouraging him until you are both masturbating at the same time and watching each other.

Licking his cum

Men want you to crave their cum!  That is the bottom line.  All men want this.  Show him your naughty side by licking his cum after his orgasm. You can lick it off of his penis, put some on your finger and lick it off of your finger.  Remember to smile and show that you enjoy his taste (even if you don't).  This is one of the hottest things you can do for him.

Swallowing his cum


Your husband wants you to take his load gladly into your mouth. If you don't swallow his cum now he is being deprived. There are a lot of websites that say "screw him, it's your choice." While it is your choice, you are married to him. If you want to be that naughty wife that he craves, and if you want him to never go search for sexual needs elsewhere, start to swallow his cum gladly. Do it willingly, with a smile. It is such a treat for him...trust me!

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